After all of those years for me searching for those missing pieces, I finally got advice from someone and this is what they told me:
For now just focus on fixing YOU and lifting your own weight before you can lift someone else’s weight. Focus on your education, not girls, and it will happen. Try harder than ever. You’re on campus for an education.
What was said above was close to what this person told me as I was walking around campus today. It’s not EXACT to what this person told me however it appears amazingly that the missing piece WAS there all along. Must’ve been in front of me all this time that’s for sure!
I guess the missing piece was known as not happiness, not love, not even confidence and motivation, but something known as FIX. Hopefully you guys get what I mean cause I know exactly what I’m doing this weekend!
Even if the worst get’s in my way, let’s make something GRAND.
You guys may not know this but guess what my biggest problem is currently?
Is it making friends? No. Is it my blog? Nope. Is it my blog wanting attention? Still no! Do I need to improve my Thanksgiving Ediquette? Okay maybe not that but here’s what it is:
Finding a significant other.
And what is the best tip ever to finding him/her?
Not expecting it is one thing.
A higher power of the universe telling you when you’re ready is a different story.
It is true! The universe is very unique in an infinite amount of ways! In fact this is why I’m making all of these new friends because the universe might be giving me signs for who that special someone could really be. It’s not just my blog you know.
It’s also what I’m doing in life too!
Hopefully she WILL find me even today! I just don’t know. The only way to find out is to not only NOT expect it but also keep meeting new people until the one has been met!
Chances of that could be 1 in about 100-10,000 people. Those are the ESTIMATED odds. It’s not completely true that this could be the case for how many people I meet but it just gives you an idea.
If you have a significant other, comment on this post saying how you found the one!